Stupid thing to say but it's not quite real to me.
Tom and I went through some similar things at similar points in time. A few years ago, there was a lot to talk about. About staying with established relationships even through changes that may seem to negate the possibility of those relationships, and about the growth of relationships through that.
He was one of the few people in the soc[motss][bi] vicinity that I could have a worthwhile discussion on being non-straight and having children.
And like some other people, I owe him a reply that I hadn't gotten around to, and we always talked about making plans that we never got around to making, and now, I guess we never will.
Oh hell.
